HOW YOU SHOULD TREAT HER..

She starts getting serious about him, and he stops thinking about her.. She never hide her love, and he never stops taking her as an option.. She quit every guys, and he starts flirting with girls. She stop double dating, and he starts keeping different type of girls.. She starts getting crazy on his every move, and he never cares about her well being or her move.. She starts telling him every little thing, and he starts talking about useless things.. She stops sleeping just to see him fast asleep, and he starts sleeping just to let her watch him snore.. She starts getting close to him, and he starts keeping miles from her.. She stops looking at other guys, and he gets serious about other girls.. She cry any time she is hurt by him, and he starts laughing at her.


1) Why the change all of a sudden? You are tired of her and pick on every little mistakes she makes. You let her go when she needed you the most, you spit her off like she never matters to you, she keeps coming back and you keep pushing her away. (She cries all night and you re far asleep) All the love you protest to her from the beginning was it True\False? Cause if you truly loves her it won't be easy for you to just walk away,you won't be willing to let go off her, you ll always have her back,accept her,forgive her and let go off her mistakes.

2) Do you even care about her and her sleepless night? Yes you don't care, it was easy for you to move on but she's out there weeping endlessly all because of you and that thing called love.

3) Have you forgotten all about her? You ve let go all the good time you once spent together. Now you have the courage and guts to tell her to her face that u don't love and want her anymore.

4) Have you let go your promises? When the love was fresh and strong. You said no matter what you will never let go,but now you left her. So you lied.


AND HIS EXCUSES WAS;

1) Have had it to my Limit; Excuse me, the last time i checked on love, it was love has no "limit". So tell me where did your limit come's from? That means it was never a true love. "When the power of love overcomes the love of power,then there will be true peace" By (Sri Chin Moi Gosh).

2) We are two different people; "OMG" so you never thought of that before you told her u want her to be yours? Hmm guys will always be one. Tell me what difference was between you two that cannot be changed or put to correction? so if she was your sister would you have neglect her. My research says "Love is all about giving and it has nothing to do with what we be received in return" By (Dr Wayne Dyer)

3) He complains and nag about her dressing, makeup,hair and lifestyle; "Hmmm" but that who she was when she was attracted to you, that was the lifestyle she was living when u loved her. If at all you want a change,you should work on the change yourself. Help her be who you want. "Love consists in this,that two solitudes protect,touch and greet each other" By (Rainer Maira Rilke)


4) He says I can't love again cause am no longer myself; Oh shut up. What with the girls? Tell me why you cannot love her again,maybe you never loved her or was your heart replace with stone? Please kindly tell me what has come over you. You re just deceiving yourself. And that another excuse to cheat and deceive again. "What we have once enjoyed we can never lose all that we love deeply becomes a part of us" By (Hellen Keller)


5) If only she can change me,i will love agian; You want her to change you to love again but you re not ready. You re not giving her attention you dont even want to see her and you want a change. Please tell me how? " Find the person who love you because of your difference and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life" By (Leo Budcaglia)



He only comes back to be friend with you when you are trying to forget about him,that when. he comes back saying his sorry when is not. His only back to add more to your problem. He come back and leaves you heartbroken again,he comes back to open your healing wounds,he come back to renew the pains you have mamage to pass through.
Then at any mistake he walks away again and leaves you back to square one, the wounds now hurt more. All in the name of Sorry. "The best portion of good man's life; His little nameless,unremembered acts of kindless and of love" By (Williams Wordsworth)

    HOW TO HELP HER.
* Please kindly make a change and be at your best with her.
* Bring her closer to you and don't push her away.
* Help her correct her mistake and accept her back.
* Tell her you are truly sorry and let that comes from your heart.
*  make her laugh and not to cry.

Love does not begins and end the way we see to think it does. Love is a battle,love is an obstacle,love is a war,love is growing up" By (James Baldwin).


I hope this write up helps you position your love life and relation back to normal and be happy while it last. "Love is the foundation of our status to be one,to cherish, to fight and win all challenges that comes" By (Tobi Soetan)