Sex for Love or for Pay?
Sex in my own definition, is having fun between two future promising Lovers but its so unfortunate, these days most lady now have sex with couple of guys/men to survive (being a runs girl and still claim they are in love with someone somewhere, how do you think your boyfriend would feel if he get to know that's what you doing?) That's why so many girls today end up breaking up with one guy or the other (ending up having sex with hundreds of guys, what's meant to be Private Part for one Lover is now Public Part for hundreds of men *cover face*, so unfortunate that most girls can't even remember how many guys they had fun with) thinking is a curse but its just that you can't be self dependent (that was our part2 topic) being self dependent can make you strong, proud and excel without shame in life. I encourage girls/ladies today to stick to one lover, be proud of yourself, like a saying that says: what shall it profit a girl that sleep with hundreds of men and still set to marry someday...remember human being are water, we can meet anywhere (imagine you end up getting married to a guy that you've slept with couple of his friends or brothers...) sex is not love but can only keep a true or reasonable relationship going.
I can categorically tell you that since last year that I had issues with my ex, have not had sex with anyone else because I learnt to stay with one true lover than hopping around and i'm the type that so much respect my d**k.
Sex is not true love but could be part of it if both of you are not virgin, if I was to have a virgin girlfriend I can stay in love with her without sex till after our wedding day.
I advise you to stay with one lover today but make sure you both love one another before going into such relationship, tho is hard to know who really loves you, that's the irony of love tho and you cant help it than to be faithful to yourself and respect your relationship, like a saying: you don't know what you have until you loose it, (like we discussed in the irony of love part1, "the people you love don't love you but the people you don't love, loves you") and your love shouldn't be a sex base relationship because the only thing that is constant in life is ChangE (your partner can change anytime if he's not certified with the relationship and that means you both were not meant to be together, because i believe whatever will be will definitely be).
Learn to interact with your lover like brother and sister, understand each other well, advice one another on what you like and what you don't, plan what you want your relationship to look like, understand when he has and when he doesn't, avoid bad habits because most ladies don't like being controlled, most especially when they are addicted to an habit, so forgo bad habits today as this would also help your love wax stronger and lead to the next level.
Wish you all the best.
Best regards...
Watch Out for Part 4 on the Irony of Love.
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Written by: Oluwatobi Odufuwa C.E.O. Life Changing Entertainment
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